Getting REAL

Girls and women: We don't have to let unrealistic ideals diminish our power. We can get REAL instead!

ABOUT & TERMS

Hey all: This network is meant for girls and women who are a part of the getting REAL movement. We want to keep the girls we meet at our live events feeling comfortable joining this network and being REAL. So we ask that anyone who joins not abuse this network or contact members outside of the getting REAL message and mission. Thanks for understanding and for staying REAL! xoxo

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Tour Dates

Saturday, March 15, 2008
BodyWise Conference
Presenting Getting REAL workshop for the Junior League of Pasadena's one-day conference designed to empower middle school girls and educate their caregivers by providing them with knowledge about developing and maintaining a positive body image.

Saturday, March 1, 2008
Spirit of Leadership Conference
NTC Liberty Station, Point Loma
Keynote speaker for the Jenna Druck Foundation Annual “Spirit of Leadership” Conference for young women.

Friday, November 2
7:00 p.m.
Menlo Park Library
800 Alma St.
Menlo Park, CA

Thursday, November 1
10 a.m.
San Jose State University

4:30-6:30 p.m.
Girls Incorporated of Alameda County - Oakland, CA

Wednesday, October 31
12 p.m.
Willard Middle School - Berkeley, CA.

Tuesday, October 30
9:00-3:40 p.m.
5th Annual Girl Summit at the San Jose Convention Center

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SPEAKERS
"Audrey and Courtney effortlessly inspired more than 500 young women at our Annual Spirit of Leadership Conference to 'Be real!' Their ability to engage each and every young woman in the room was exactly what we had hoped for -- and they than delivered! More than any keynote speakers we have ever had, they became an intimate part of our family. We consider ourselves blessed to have Audrey and Courtney as future partners in empowering young women."
—Ken Druck, founder, Jenna Druck Foundation

“Courtney Macavinta and Audrey D. Brashich are a dynamic team of presenters. Their workshop, Getting REAL, was perfect for a college audience. The workshop participants were enthralled by their visual medium and touched by their personal stories. We all walked away both wiser and stronger in resisting media pressure to internalize toxic prescriptions for ideal womanhood.”
—Dr. Elena Klaw, Director of the Center for Community Learning & Leadership, San Jose State University


“The Getting REAL tour presented by Audrey Brashich and Courtney Macavinta is an empowering experience for teen girls. Through honest discussion and fun activities girls learn to set boundaries, build supportive relationships, evaluate media hype and ‘get real’ about body image. This workshop is an invaluable learning opportunity for parents and teens.”
—Michelle Barrese, Head of Youth Services, Menlo Park Library



ALL MADE UP

"All Made Up puts fame, glamour and beauty in perspective while encouraging girls to feel good about themselves exactly as they are.”

—Mariska Hargitay, actress, Law & Order: Special Victims Unit



“Audrey Brashich gives readers the inside track on celebrity and beauty. She’s an amazing guide for girls and women in our media-saturated times.”

—Nancy Gruver, founder & CEO, New Moon Magazine for Girls



“All Made Up is an invaluable resource for teens (and the adults who care about them!) who are ‘All Fed Up’ with unhealthy media pressures.”

—Dina Zeckhausen, PhD, founder, The Eating Disorders Information Network



"This vitally important, engaging, and illuminating book offers girls insight into the harm done by celebrity hype. Even more important, it gives them the tools to fight back and inspires them to celebrate positive role models and real beauty. Required reading for girls and everyone who cares about them."

—Jean Kilbourne, author, Can't Buy My Love: How Advertising Changes the Way We Think and Feel



RESPECT

“The best book of its kind that I've read—by FAR!”

—Carolyn See, reviewer, The Washington Post



“Respect inspires girls to replace self-doubt with far more powerful beliefs: self-respect, sisterhood and social change. The authors offer young women both advice to live by and tools to spread the word.”

—Peggy Orenstein, author, Schoolgirls



“Great book! A thorough guide that both parents and girls will love.”

—Rosalind Wiseman, author, Queen Bees and Wannabes & founder of the Empowered Program



“Respect should be on every girl’s nightstand—right next to her diary.”

—Peggy Klaus, author, Brag!



“Respect is not just another teen advice book—it is a roadmap for life.”

—Andrea Frank Henkart, author, Cool Communication



“It is imperative that every mother and daughter, sister and best friend read this book! Bravo!”

—Jessica Weiner, author, A Very Hungry Girl & Do I Look Fat in This? & Self-Esteem Expert for the Tyra Banks Show


 

Getting REAL


We're Audrey Brashich, author of ALL MADE UP, and Courtney Macavinta, co-author of RESPECT, and we've teamed up to deliver an empowering workshop for teen girls, young women and moms about getting REAL.


middle school, high school, college and parent presentations
During these interactive workshops and keynotes, girls and women learn how to boost their media literacy, improve their body image and self-respect and create social change for all girls and women.


Download the Getting REAL brochure to learn more!
Or send email to getreal(at)respectrx(dot)com


Book this interactive presentation in conjunction with your campus’ National Eating Disorders Awareness Week, V-Day or Love Your Body Day programs!

FREE book bags for girls and women who attend your event! Sponsored in part by

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FAQ

What’s The Getting REAL tour all about? It’s an interactive, audio/visual presentation that reaches out to teen girls, young women, and parents around important issues like self-respect, celebrity worship and creating social change. Who’s it for? The middle and high school program is for girls ages 12 and up, along with teachers, guidance counselors and administrators. Parents are welcome, too, if they’re available during the school day. However we can also do a separate, e… Continue

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Jenna Druck Foundation: Young Women's Leadership Program

This Saturday, 500 girls joined us in Getting REAL at the Jenna Druck Foundation's annual “Spirit of Leadership” Conference. It was one of the most amazing events of our lives! The girls were inspired by the legacy of an amazing young w… Continue

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Help other girls and women get REAL

How we can help the girls and women in our lives can get REAL (and be more REAL ourselves):


Focus on RESPECT basics: Model self-respect and encourage her to get REAL by:

  • making choices that feel right to her and pass her gut checks
  • appreciating and care for herself
  • speaking up and setting healthy
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ABC's View from the Bay

Check out our tips for girls and moms!
View From the Bay
(Aired on Tuesday, November 6, 2007 )

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Some getting REAL project ideas from REAL girls:


  • Start a sisterhood circle so girls can talk about what's REALLy going on in their lives and support each other.


  • Make "INNER beauty bands" which are bracelets that you can wear with a reminder of something really cool about you on it or a caring message to yourself

  • Hang positive affirmation signs over t
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The Top 3 unREAL(ities) we're facing today

As woman and girls our lives can become ruled by unrealistic images and ideals—what we call unREAL(ities):

#1 Pressure to compete with our peers, to make the grade and to compare ourselves to others. This pushes us to try to be like everyone else except the REAL us. For example, 74% of girls say they are under pressure to please everyone (Girls Inc.).

#2 Packaging is the focus—from celeb magazines to reality TV and the Web—we're encouraged to invest too…

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on the road meeting REAL role models!

We've connected with so many amazing REAL role models in the Bay area this week! First at the 5th Annual Girl Summit in San Jose hosted by Girls For A Change, we basked in the energy of 1,600 girls learning about their REAL girl power. At Willard Middle School girls told us about their passions and how they're going to stay REAL. At San Jose State Uni… Continue

Posted by Courtney Macavinta on November 2nd, 2007 at 11:24am — No Comments (Add)

About Audrey & Courtney

Audrey D. Brashich and Courtney Macavinta are nationally recognized authors who are dedicated to empowering young women. They have been featured on CNN, NBC, Fox and National Public Radio, and in USA Today, The Chicago Tribune, CosmoGIRL!, Teen People, Teen Vogue, The Seattle Times, The Chicago Sun Times, The San Jose Mercury News, Women’s e-news and numerous others media outlets. They have presented self-esteem workshops for hundreds of girls and women and their advocates around the country, and have worked with national organizations such as Mind on the Media, Girls Inc., Dads and Daughters, Girls For A Change, the YMCA, the Girls Scouts, the Ms. Foundation for Women and the Dove Campaign for Real Beauty.

Audrey has worked in teen and women’s journalism since 1993 for magazines like Sassy, Jump, YM, Seventeen, Elle Girl, CosmoGIRL!, Teen People, Girls Life, Lucky, Mademoiselle, Ms., Health and others. As a teen, Audrey modeled for J.Crew, Seventeen and Clinique cosmetics, which helped shape her understanding of the media’s influence over self-image. Today, her work focuses on developing positive body image, debunking media myths and exposing the connection between marketing and beauty ideals. Her book, All Made Up: A Girl’s Guide to Seeing Through Celebrity Hype and Celebrating Real Beauty, is a favorite among librarians, teachers, parents and teens. Audrey holds a master's degree in pop culture and gender studies from Brown University.

Courtney is an award-winning journalist, author, speaker and teen coach who has reached more than a million girls and women through her work, including her blog RespectRx.com and bestselling book, RESPECT: A Girl’s Guide to Getting Respect and Dealing When Your Line Is Crossed. As a young woman, Courtney struggled with issues like abuse, body image and her multi-racial identity. She fought hard to find respect—then discovered it was within her all along. Today that’s her message to girls everywhere: true respect starts on the inside. Courtney’s been covering teen culture for more than a decade—she’s the former editorial director of ChickClick and has been published by The Washington Post, The Associated Press, The Huffington Post, Girl Scouts uniquely ME!, Daughters, Common Sense Media, Wired News, Business 2.0, The Sacramento Bee, CNET News.com and others. She has a degree in journalism from San Francisco State University.

REAL model photo exhibit

When you look at the photos of girls and women below, you'll find that what you see is not what you get. The lesson: Who we REALly are is so much more powerful than what meets the eye. And when we are REAL, we are real powerful.

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What Girls Are Saying....

"I learned to be yourself!"

"Audrey and Courtney tell the truth and talk with truth."

"Their message is something that I struggle with and they've been through it themselves."

"Audrey and Courtney keep it real!"

"I learned to love myself and be confident."

"I learned not to put myself down."

"I learned you're hot enough to be yourself."

"I learned I'm not the only one feeling this way."

"Audrey and Courtney spoke to us openly and honestly."

"They know how to connect with teen girls like us."

"Audrey and Courtney know what us girls are going through."

"They are passionate about the message they are getting out."

"The Getting REAL tour really made me think about speaking my mind and blocking out negatives."

"Audrey and Courtney taught me I can change the world in little ways and still do what I love."

"Audrey and Courtney are brave enough to present to us."

"Audrey and Courtney have been through a lot and they're awesome!"

"They know what they are talking about and are strong, smart and bold!"

"They know a lot and are beautiful inside and out."

"Audrey and Courtney taught me to think about being REAL and how to accept myself the way I am."

"Audrey and Courtney are REAL role models!"
 

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